Lucille, go to "members" and search for Mike Sero there. Then, click on his name, go to his page and click, "add as friend". When he responds, you can message him by clicking "send a message" on his page. He may never see your message on your page, because he is not connected with you. You can also click on any discussions he has on his page and talk to him publicly there. He has been back on the forums this month. No soliciting is allowed on the forums.